As a progressive, intelligent state, it’s surprising it has taken this long for gay marriage to become a reality.

But we’re finally on the road to equal rights for all and we strongly support Referendum 74 on this November’s ballot. If approved, starting Dec. 6, 2012, it will be legal for same-sex couples to marry. In addition, it preserves domestic partnerships for seniors and the right of religious organizations to refuse to perform or recognize any marriage ceremony.

Those in opposition of the referendum say it denigrates the sanctity of marriage.  Since society created the invention of “marriage,” why can’t we redefine it? If we upheld the social customs of centuries past, women would be barefoot and pregnant and young kids would be put to work. Gay partners should receive the same legal benefits as heterosexual partners.

Washington United for Marriage is a coalition of more than 500 organizations, congregations, unions, and businesses working together to defend civil marriage for committed same-sex couples.

“We believe marriage and family are about love and commitment, working together, bettering the community, raising children, and growing old together,” according to its website, http://washingtonunitedformarriage.org. “We believe in a Washington that supports strong families and values freedom and equality. And we believe that marriage matters.”

Many rejoiced when Governor Christine Gregoire signed the marriage bill last February. It was set to take effect on June 7, but, sadly, opponents submitted enough signatures to suspend the bill and require a state-wide vote.

Washingtonians can be a shining example of acceptance and tolerance by approving this measure.

We hope that future generations will look back at this time and say, “I can’t believe that same-sex marriage used to be illegal!” It is as absurd as women being unable to vote. While intolerance and ignorance are still part of our society, this bill is one step closer to ensuring equal rights for all U.S. citizens.